I realized how often I do this. Choose partners who are preoccupied, who aren’t focused on our life together in healthy ways, and who I ultimately leave. This pattern is me reliving what I did not receive as a little girl.
I have created this video for you to start getting familiar with your body and how it stores emotion.
You will soon see how capable you are of identifying, sitting with, and then resolving your stored emotions.
Do you carry a Mother Wound?
In this video I share 5 signs you may be carrying a Mother Wound.
The Orders of Love are the universal laws of the family system. When our family’s relationships do not follow the order, love does not flow, and the family system is interrupted. Family Constellations is the mechanism to set the systems in order.
Family Mapping is the tool I use to help connect the dots from the reason we are in a session to their origin. On its surface, its the intake process for any new client. But it’s so much more than that. It’s the delicate, specific questions that guide you to the root of your current issue.
Emotions are normal and natural. They are meant to be felt, processed, and metabolized at the moment they happen. However, when you experience trauma, the normal process of expressing emotion can be shut down, trapping your response and emotion inside your body. It becomes body memory. If left unprocessed, it sits there, in your body, it becomes the filter from which you view and orientate to the world. Attuning into your body so that you can identify what you are feeling and where you are feeling it, is pivotal to healing.
Our Mother is our first love. When this relationship is imbalanced, it creates a Mother Wound that when left unhealed can deeply and unconsciously affect your relationships, friendships, career, finances, fertility, parenting and health.
Women who choose abortion are doing the absolute right thing for their life. It doesn’t mean there won’t be grief, sadness, and even moments of regret. We can acknowledge the emotion and hold space that she still made the right decision.
It’s not that we have to love ourselves first. It’s that we need to heal our wounds first.